I have to admit, I didn’t see it coming. When I stepped into this role as Lead Pastor, I anticipated challenges, responsibilities, and, yes, moments of joy. However, I didn’t expect the profound depth of honor that I’ve experienced over the past year.
Recently, I walked into my office on what I thought was an ordinary morning. To my amazement, my office was filled with balloons and signs from the outreach team. In that moment, I thought, “Wow, these people actually know me.” It wasn’t just the decorations; it was the thoughtfulness behind it all. Earlier that week, during sermon review, the staff surprised me with gifts that were not only thoughtful but deeply meaningful. Those gifts and their words reflected who I am, what I stand for, and our journey as a church over the past year. Then, on Sunday, I was surprised once more when Larry Ali appeared on our screen during worship, sharing such encouraging words.
This series of moments illustrated to me the power of honor on my heart and our community.
Guiding Principles of Honor
As a staff, we developed a guiding principle: “See, Support, and Celebrate.” This core value emphasizes the importance of our relationships with one another. Over the past couple of weeks, I have truly been Seen, Supported, and Celebrated. I have never felt more honored as a pastor than I do now.
You see, honor is a curious thing. It’s not something you can demand; it’s given freely and carries weight. In Hebrew, the concept of Kavod refers to the heaviness or weight given to a person as a show of respect and support.
When we experience honor, we are called to carry it well.
Honor as a Way of Life
Honor isn’t just something that shows up on special occasions; it’s a way of life—a rhythm that God wove into the fabric of our relationships. When I think about honor in the Bible, I’m reminded of the command: “Honor your father and your mother” (Exodus 20:12). This command is not merely for children; it emphasizes that respect starts at home and should echo throughout our lives.
Honor within a family teaches us how to honor others—leaders, friends, even strangers. It’s about recognizing the value in each person and responding with respect. When we practice this, something shifts in the atmosphere; there’s a sense of belonging. You feel seen, and you feel like you matter. After a week of being honored as Lead Pastor, It was only appropriate to introduce a concept to our church dear to my heart: the Imago Dei. Every human is made in the image of God, imparting immediate value and worth.
When we honor others, we acknowledge the image of God within them and celebrate it.
That’s what I’ve experienced here at Desert Vineyard. This community excels not only in celebrating moments but also in seeing people. Whether it’s honoring volunteers who show up faithfully or the leadership team that has guided us through tough times, there’s an underlying respect that makes all the difference.
A Two-Way Street
But here’s the thing: honor isn’t a one-way street; it’s mutual. In 1 Samuel 2:30, God states, “Those who honor me I will honor.” This verse underscores the exchange that occurs when we live with integrity and respect; God pours His honor back upon us. That is weighty.
Over the past year, I’ve learned invaluable lessons in unexpected ways. Leading a church through growth, challenges, and uncertainties demands deep humility. We must trust that God is at work, even when the answers are unclear. In return, I’ve experienced God’s honor—not just in moments of clarity or success, but through the trust and encouragement this community has shown me. Pastor David Parker has been a remarkable example of humility, demonstrating what it means to act for the good of the church. His leadership has honored me, and the church continues to thrive as a testament to his investment.
It’s not something I’ve earned. It’s a gift. And when we honor each other, God seems to multiply that honor in ways we couldn’t have imagined.
Honor in the Everyday
Here’s where it gets real: honor isn’t just about grand gestures. Yes, the balloons and heartfelt words on my anniversary were unforgettable, but what makes this community special is how honor manifests in everyday interactions.
Leviticus 19:32 reminds us, “Stand up in the presence of the aged; show respect for the elderly.” This simple command can have a profound impact. When we embody honor, it reshapes our conversations, our attentiveness, and the way we show up for one another.
Proverbs 31:23 paints another picture: “Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.” This scene illustrates honor lived out in public life, not just being known but respected for how we contribute to our community.
Whether it’s in a meeting, a casual conversation in the lobby, or the way we serve together, honor is consistently present at Desert Vineyard. It’s the quiet moments that build a culture where people feel safe, valued, and eager to grow.
The Ripple Effect
Honor doesn’t stop with the person being honored; it creates a ripple effect. When we honor others, we build trust, foster unity, and share purpose. This lifts the entire church because honor isn’t about putting one person on a pedestal; it’s about elevating the work of God among us.
What I’ve experienced over the past year has revealed to me the transformative power of honor. It strengthens not just the recipient but the entire community. It creates space for God to work miracles, where people are free to embrace their calling, and where generosity and grace flow more abundantly than we could have imagined.
Looking Forward
As I look to the future, I am more convinced than ever that cultivating a community of honor is foundational to everything we do. The honor I’ve received has filled me with gratitude, but more importantly, it has fortified our church. Together, we are carrying the weight of honor, answering God’s call to honor Him, each other, and the mission He has given us.
So, to everyone who’s been a part of this journey—thank you. Thank you for showing me what honor looks like in action. Thank you for being a community that embodies respect, kindness, and care. I invite you to reflect: how do you practice honor in your own life? What small gestures could you offer to honor those around you?
I’m beyond grateful for where we’ve been, and I can’t wait to see where God leads us next.
Key Takeaways:
- Honor is a mutual, weighty gift that strengthens relationships within our community.
- Practicing honor is an everyday commitment that fosters belonging and respect.
- The ripple effect of honor elevates God’s work among us, creating a vibrant and united church.
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